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    Thursday, September 02, 2010
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    Thursday, September 02, 2010
  3. Writing Devotionals
    Saturday, August 28, 2010
  4. Self-Publishing Coming of Age
    Sunday, August 22, 2010
  5. A Day In The Life Of A Writer
    Monday, August 16, 2010
  6. The 10 Commandments of Fiction Writing + some
    Tuesday, August 10, 2010
  7. Stolen Melody Restored
    Thursday, July 29, 2010
  8. Dry Sockets
    Monday, July 26, 2010
  9. 12 Suggestions On Finding an Agent
    Friday, July 16, 2010
  10. Bartlett Christian Writers host first workshop
    Wednesday, July 14, 2010

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Give Water

Just passing along the call to give from fellow blogger Billy Coffey

   

Times are tough here in western Virginia.

You can see it in the boarded up businesses and the long lines at the employment office. In the vehicles parked in front yards with FOR SALE signs in the windshields, right next to the same sort of sign for the house. The newspapers are full of layoffs, bankruptcies, and health care worries.

Hard times, no doubt about it.

But even in these hard times there are things we take for granted, those basic necessities we can’t live without but are in such abundance we forget their importance. Things like water. I have three bathtubs in my house. Five sinks. Two spigots outside. There’s a creek running alongside our house that give me fresh mountain water for the sprinkler. Water, water everywhere.

Not everyone is so fortunate:

A couple of weeks ago, my friend Bryan Allain (I use that term loosely, since he’s a Red Sox fan) sent me an email asking if I would join with him and some other bloggers in a campaign called 30 Bloggers, 30 Days, $30,000. The goal is to raise $30,000 in 30 days. Here’s the list of fine folks Tyler Stanton and Bryan Allain have assembled:

Bryan AllainMatt ApplingTrey BodenJason BoyettEverett BrackenStephen BrewsterBurnside Writers CollectiveTripp CrosbyGreg DarleySam DavidsonRachel Held EvansEvan ForesterChad GibbsSusan IsaacsKevin Keigley,Lacey KeigleyWes MolebashScott MooreEric OlsenAJ PassmanKatdishBrad RugglesRob ShepherdJeff ShinabargerShawn SmuckerTyler StantonTyler TarverTyler ThigpenKaren Spears Zacharias

I’ve never asked anyone who reads my blog to dig into their pockets. Like I said above, times are tough. So what I’m going to do is provide you with the information and let your heart talk instead of me. The best part about this campaign is that all money donated will reach a specific group of needy people.  Here’s where this money will go:

  • Our goal is $30,000. This provides clean water to 1,500 people (300 families, 6 entire communities).
  • 100% of the money donated goes towards water projectsPrivate donors take care of all the overhead.
  • $20 provides 1 person clean water for 20 years.
  • Our money will go towards building water projects in Central African Republic.
  • If you give, charity: water will keep you up-to-date with the status of your project, provide you with GPS coordinates of exactly where the well you contributed to is being built, and take pictures and video along the way.

So, how can you help?

  • GIVE. $20 provides clean water for one person for 20 years! Go to the 30 Bloggers, 30 Days, $30,000 site and make a donation.
  • SHARE about it on Facebook and Twitter. Follow @charitywater here.
  • Blog about it.30 bloggers is simply a starting point. We would love to have more people join in and help spread the word! And if you do blog about it, please let me know so I can link back to your post.

Last but not least, here’s a bunch of cool downloadsbanners and twitter backgrounds you can use. Thanks for your time.

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Book Project

 ‎"Date, Pray, Wait" is a book about dating from my time to yours. I am taking interviews from singles of all ages as part of my research. If you are interested in participating, please send me a message to suzypooh@comcast.net and give me your email address. I will forward you the online questionnaire to fill out and send back. 


Your participation is invaluable.  Thanks so much.

Writing Devotionals


Insight from guest blogger Cec Murphey 

With only 200 words (about one page, double-spaced), you can't expect to delve into deep truths. You can, however, suggest ways for readers to examine themselves and live happier lives.

Until you try, you probably won't realize how difficult devotional articles are to write. In the 1980s, I wrote devotionals for a variety of magazines. They don't pay much ($10 to $25) and some don't pay anything, but I loved the discipline. I couldn't use extra words, limp phrases, or repetitions. Every word had to justify itself. My first draft often hit 600 words and I had to delete two-thirds of the text and still retain the heart of the material. I loved the discipline.

Here's the next rule: You're forced to stay with one idea. Any good article does that, but if you write for this market, you become aware of sentences that may be interesting, but aren't germane to the topic you address, and you delete them.

One idea expressed well and succinctly:
That's the secret of writing devotionals.

Self-Publishing Coming of Age

This tweet came to me from Terry Whalin, a marketing expert I feature on a weekly basis in my Memphis Christian Writing Examiner column. It offers good insight into the world of self-publishing in today's economic climate. 

Read this great article on self-publishing by Ann Byle in Publishers Weekly: http://ht.ly/2sQOY The world is changing & you need to know.  

I'm not saying that self-publishing is for everyone, but in certain cases it should be considered a viable option. Of course, we all want to be accepted by a traditional royalty house and get paid a lucrative advance, but self-publishing is a good place to start building platform.  In fact, many successful authors today started out in self-publishing to do just that.  And that offers grounds for serious consideration.

A Day In The Life Of A Writer

Howdeeee!  I know it's been way too long since my last post.  So sorry, but I do have a good excuse or a few of them actually.  We went out of town to visit my mother, school shopping (always an ordeal), car hunting, and electrical outages.  This morning we woke up in an oven.  The a/c went out sometime in the night.  We have had a continuous heat wave since June.  I'm thankful it was repaired by 10:00 a.m before the worst heat of the day set in.

And now for writing:  Our writers group had a New Members Brunch this last Saturday.  We have added two new members and now have 20 members total on our roster.  If they all decide to show up at once, we will have to move to a bigger room.  After brunch and mingling for a while, we had two presentations.  The first one was given by Linda Darlene Reaves.  She told us about how her interest in genealogy prompted and inspired her first book.  She also shared about the reenactment of her great grandparents wedding from 1880, which was very interesting.  You can read all about it on my news page: Memphis Writing Examiner. The pictures turned out so nice, I will share one with you here. Her dress reminded me of my own wedding dress. 

Our second speaker was Stefani Lewallan, who spoke about Writing as a Ministry.  She gave us lots of tips for how to get clips for your writing portfolio.  She actually took all the photos at the mock wedding including the one below.  It was a great day to meet new writers and I got good encouraging comments afterwards.  One sweet lady said, "I wish we could this more often than just once a month."  


The 10 Commandments of Fiction Writing + some

The 10 Commandments of Fiction Writing - Just wanted to share this link with everyone.

Sorry I've been MIA this past week, but I've been out of town visiting with family back home in Texas.  The whole family was together and it was nice spending time with my mother at the farm.  Watched movies, played games, cooked, went out to eat at the local cafe and then we went into town to look at the antique cars in the square.   Didn't do much writing as the Internet is very slow.  They do get it, but they are out in the big middle of nowhere.  But that's okay.  I wanted to spend my time with my family and take a break from writing.  It served to be a good break and now I am rearing to go again.  No pics to share either, as my youngest did something to the digital camera and we can't figure out how to fix it.

Small towns offer such genuine experiences to inspire me.  Folks are real friendly around those parts too.  There was a rodeo going on somewhere, but we didn't get there.  You may think there isn't all that much to do in a small town, out the middle of the country, but there really is plenty to keep you busy.  Talking and visiting is a big pass time.  This is a Texas custom that I grew up with.  Be friendly with your neighbors and you'll have loyal friends for the rest of your life.  It's true.  We still keep in touch  with old neighbors from our childhood to this day. 

Stolen Melody Restored

I have some exciting news to share.  A couple of months ago we experienced a robbery at our home.  Musical instruments that belonged to my older son's friend were taken.  When we discovered my vintage ovation guitar had been taken too, my heart sank. That guitar was my pride and joy.  It was given to me by my parents when I was a teenager.  Yes, that was a while ago, but I'm still young at heart.   I traveled all over the United States with that guitar and performed with it at many weddings.  I had not been playing or singing for a quit a while and had left it upstairs in my son's room as he had been showing more interest in playing at the time.  As soon as I realized it was gone though, I could hardly bear the thought of never playing my beloved guitar again.  I was inspired to write many songs playing it.  

The good news is the police found out that my guitar had been sold on Craig's list by a local pawn shop to a guy who collected vintage guitars.  He obviously recognized its value right away and purchased it the first day it was on Craig's list.  He also went to the time and expense to make needed repairs to the neck, for which I am very grateful.  As soon as the police contacted him about the stolen guitar, he was more than happy to return it to the pawn shop.  The pawn shop graciously paid him back what he had paid for it along with the repair cost.  They then sold it to me for the same cost.  Now granted, it was my guitar in the first place, but I wasn't going to argue about the price.  I was just grateful to get my guitar back.  Here's the really cool part.   The guy who bought my guitar is Michael Strickland, a professional musician, who used to play backup for "The Platters" and still plays with several well-known bands around town.  Of course, I made sure my son, Chris, who is studying sound engineering at MTSU (Middle Tennessee State University), met him and got some good advice along with contacts for a future job.  Mr. Strickland and I have since befriended one another on Facebook as well.   He sent me a picture of him playing the guitar, which he had affectionately named "Anna" - for Anniversary as she is a special edition.   Michael also told me that he was inspired to write four songs on Anna, while she was in his possession and that he would be performing one of them at a memorial concert for another well-know musician in August.  He invited me to attend, so I could hear it.  I told him I would be there. 



I thought Anna was lost forever and that I would never see her again.  My hope for recovery was very low especially after the police had informed me that they had closed the case.   I prayed earnestly though for the Lord to bring my dear guitar back to me and God did answer that prayer.  He doesn't answer all my prayers, but He sure did answer that one in a most remarkable way.  Now I have a wonderful story to share with you and my grandchildren someday.  I hope Anna is with me for the rest of my life and that she will be passed along to the next generation.  With Anna safely back home, I couldn't set her down.  I immediately started playing and trying to remember the old melodies I had written.  It's all starting to come back to me now along with the blessed inspiration that Anna still gives.  Mr. Strickland said " This guitar has been kissed."   To which I replied, "She was blessed way before that though."   What Michael doesn't know is that guitar has been anointed by God for His higher purpose.   I truly believe God gave me that guitar for His will and His purpose to be done in my life.  Obviously, He is not finished with me singing yet.  I had been concentrating so much on writing books that I had neglected my first gift   I feel so blessed to have a second chance to recover the stolen melodies of my heart., and the praises that will bring honor and glory to my heavenly Father.  

Dry Sockets

My son had to get his wisdom teeth removed about two weeks ago.  The oral surgeon said that the pain should be pretty much gone in a couple of days, however, there are those few (1 out of 25) patients who tend to suffer with dry sockets afterwards.  Of course my son, Matt, would be the one.  Sweet misery has persisted for more than a week now.  I'm happy to report that the many trips back and forth to the Dentist office at 7:00 in the morning, which took an hour round trip for a five minute procedure to stuff the sockets with antiseptic strips, are finally over.  This has not been a fun ride, but a very necessary one.   After spending nearly $3,000.00 out of pocket for braces, seeing those pearly whites perfectly straightened, and then threatened by impacted teeth the price of pain was worth it.   My seventeen year old doesn't believe me though.   I'm hoping he will appreciate all we've suffered through together later - most likely much later.  

This experience has brought to mind an old adage "No pain, no gain."   In order to keep that beautiful, winning smile that sends shivers up a girls spine, my son had to endure this pain.   In that same vein, writers must endure the pain and agony of our own "Dry Sockets" so to speak.   We may have gotten that story written and finally seen our baby come into perfect form only to find there is little to no interest from a publisher.   The dry socket of rejection is painful, but there is healing that takes place in time.   Eventually the sockets will heal and the teeth (the story) will remain in perfect tact.   Eventually that perfect smile will win the contest or catch the eye of an agent or publisher.  The thing you have to do is keep smiling and submitting your work.   If you never submit your story,  no one will ever see those lovely teeth or words you have written  that shine so bright and beautiful in that winning manuscript you have written. 

12 Suggestions On Finding an Agent

1.  One author's suggestion to "do your homework" before selecting an agent is key. DON'T sign up with somebody just because they say they're anagent and they want to represent you. I know that's a temptation, butthis is a professional relationship. Would you go to a guy's office foryour health problems just because he claims to be a doctor? Ask around.Check him out. This is the biggest mistake people make with agents, in my view. This past year at CBA you could toss a rock in the air andwhen it came down it would most likely hit somebody claiming to be an"agent." Um... these guys are going to be taking your ideas and helping you sign legal agreements regarding them. Don't take that lightly.

2.  Be wary of any agent who charges a fee or advertises what the charge isto work with them. That's a total violation of the guidelines for theAssociation of Author Representatives (and, in fact, those agentswouldn't be allowed as members of AAR). There are a couple relativelysuccessful agencies in CBA who do that.  It's unethical, and authors should stay away, if they want to keep from being scammed. On the otherhand, I was VERY glad to have someone write and tell me that "Steve Laube is my agent and he's good." Don't we all get tired of people sort of beating around the bush, telling us one person is bad and another is good, but never mentioning names? The fact is, Steve IS good. So is Lee Hough and Janet Grant and Wendy Lawton and Rachelle Gardner and NatashaKern and Greg Daniel and Karen Solem and Greg Johnson and Andrea Heinecke and Robert Wolgemuth and Sandra Bishop (the last works with meat MacGregor Literary). My guess is that none of these individuals arefor everyone; and neither am I, of course. But they're all professionals who have proven themselves by doing good work for authors. Beware of working with "Bozo and Associates."

3.  Check out more than one source. As an agent, I can be perfect for oneperson and perfectly awful for somebody else. Besides, you're more aptto get the facts that way.  For example, there is one person I know who has it in for a particular agent. I've heard her say some really bad(and in my opinion, overblown) things about that individual. Okay...she didn't sell your manuscript.  It happens!  Get over it and move on to something else.

4.   Be realistic.  A couple people wrote to me to say, in essence, "I don't have an agent because I like doing my own deals," or words to that effect. Good for you. As an agent, I have to wonder if you know how to negotiate and therefore got the BEST deal, or if you really protected yourselves. Or if you really want to spend your time learning how to do that. Not everybody needs an agent, but if you don't know the market, or don't know about contracts, you might want to think carefully before throwing out the idea.

5.  On two or three occasions I've had the chance to see a contract evaluation done by Sally Stuart (who lives in the Northwest and doesthe "Christian Writer's Market Guide" every year). She does great work.If you don't have an agent, at least consider working with Sally or an experienced contract person like Susan Osborne. Some company's contracts read like they were created by lawyers from Mars, so be careful signing a document you don't understand.

6.  Cec Murphey, who has been in the business since the Cooledge Administration and became famous after writing dozens of books, knows what he's talking about when he says in a blog post, "Writers can still sell books without agents, especially to the smaller houses. What's wrong with starting with smaller houses?"  Nothing.  All of us start small and move to bigger things. That's how a career (any career) isbuilt. 

7.  One author asked, "Are there times when an agent might hinder a publishing opportunity?" Sure...when the guy is a jerk. When he doesn't know the market (which happens a lot...try using an ABA entertainment lawyer working with a smaller CBA house sometime). When he sees negotiation as a "win/lose" proposition. An agent should take theapproach that publishing is a partnership between author, publisher,and agent. If he tries to squeeze the publisher to the point where the publisher is losing money, that is no longer a partnership. Yes, my authors expect me to protect their interests, but I have no interest in pushing publishers into losing money...that just hurts the market for other projects down the road. (But, on the other side, I've seen publishers lowball authors way too many times.  A good agent will recognize when that's happening and take steps to protect you.)

8.  One writer wrote and asked, "How has having an agent affected therelationships you've built over the years with editors - or has it?" My perspective is that acquisition editors are my friends. Ask around and you'll probably find that most publishers will tell you their relationship with our authors is better than if we weren't in the picture. (Really.)

9.  One person wrote to contend that "you should be given copies of your rejection letters," and complained because her agent hadn't shows all the rejections to her. Um... I have to respectfully disagree. It usedto be true, when things were done via snail mail and there were far fewer projects. Now almost everything is done via email and we rarely get a detailed response. Most rejections these days are nothing more than, "We're declining Bob Smith's novel 'Home.'" There's not much info to share. However, whenever I get a detailed response, or thoughts onimproving the manuscript, I forward it to the author... AND I send a thank you note to the editor.

10.  I also have to disagree with the folks who contended that "the agent will take over the marketing of my book." Hey, an agent should be able to assist with the planning, but as an author, YOU are most responsible for marketing your book. Do not leave that up to the publisher, the agent, the sales staff, your mom, or anyone else. Nobody knows it better than you, nobody has more investment in it than you, and nobody is more committed to its success than you.

11.  Again, the biggest complaint most agented authors have about their agent is "lack of contact." That's why you want somebody who you like (love covering a multitude of sins, and all that). But to the person who wrote to say they hadn't heard from their agent in six months...for goodness' sake! That's terrible, to my way of thinking. I guess every author is different. Some want to hear from their agent every week. Others are happy connecting twice a year. Talk about your expectations with your agent -- make sure you both can live with them. But remember that most agents are working with lots of authors, so be willing to understand his/her business and adjust your thinking.

12.   A thought...learn to be polite. I never mind an author saying to me,"HI Chip -- I hadn't heard in a while, and I was just wondering if you had an update for me.  Have we heard from anyone?"  On the other hand, I have a different reaction when somebody writes and says: "WHAT'S HAPPENING?!  HOW COME YOU DON'T CALL AND SAY YOU LOVE ME?  FOR GOSH SAKES, I NEED A LOT MORE INFORMATION THAN YOU'RE GIVING!  WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?" (Of course, my mom used to say that to me, but I prefer not to have the authors I represent talk that way to me.) 

Compliments of guest blogger: Chip McGregor 

Bartlett Christian Writers host first workshop



Stirring the Pot - Writing for Chicken Soup for the Soul" workshop went well with about 20 writers gathering to learn how to write and submit work to Chicken Soup for the Soul anthologies. Marylane Koch and Tracy Crump lead the sessions with helpful information that can be used in nearly every aspect of publishing and not just for the Chicken Soup publications. 

Details were given in regards to Chicken Soup Call-Outs and what exactly the editors are looking for from writers. The online submissions process was explained in detail to better help those of us who tend to be more technically challenged. Contracts, rights and payment were gone over as well. 

Marylane went over the technique for mind mapping or "Webbing," which is very helpful for fleshing out ideas and characters. Other items on the agenda included word count expectations, formatting , reading your work out loud to yourself, what Chicken Soup doesn't want from a writer, and other reputable anthology markets to consider for submission. All in all, this was a great workshop and many walked away with a positive and encouraging experience to share with others.

Some writers enjoying the workshop:


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